I think people are putting way too much thought into this. The seller has a bottom line and that's the least he's willing to net. Why would juggling the number make you happy (for those that want fees included).
Then there's the other problem of some people making you lose money via paypal protection. A person could buy your item and then drop it on the floor causing slight damage and use paypal to force you to take it back and pay shipping. A buyer may own one of the same item with a minor defect, buy your perfect one and use paypal to make you take their old one. There are lots of schemes. I'm just saying it's possible.
If you sell on your reputation using FF you're in control. When the transaction is done it's done. That's just another way to look at it.
In the end it's up to the two individuals involved. They either come to an agreement or don't but there is no perfect rule.
Its true anyone can scam anyone. Best way is to use cash and meet in person. That way no one get scam. But not everyone lives 10 mins drive from each other so we relay on service like pay pal. And their policy states sellers pay the fees. Not the buyer. Pay pal have to make money to give their service to us to use. FF is uses to send money to friends and family. Not for selling goods. Its against their policy to use FF to buy or sell goods. Imagine everyone using FF, pay pal wont get any money. And there would be tons and tons of scams. PP is free to use. They only charge 3% fee for sellers to sell their good and they wont pay up and break the rules they agree to when they sign up to avoid 3% fee? Smh
Sellers give you the choice; go the FF route or pay the fee. You decide how you want to go.
If the fee is included in the price, you have no choice, and you still pay the fee.Â
Simple.
Seller is breaking PP rules by asking FF or force buyer to pay the fees. When we sign up didnt we all have to agree on their terms and policies? Then why break it to save a few bucks. If buyer get sellers paypal email they can report them to PP with screenshots as proof that seller is trying to avoid the fees by asking for FF or pay the fee. And seller will get either a warning or even account terminated. FF is use for sending money to friends and family. Not to sell goods. If people abused it PayPal will probably start charging a fee for FF too. Smh. Seller can include the fee into their price, but then price would be higher and wont attract buyers, that is why they try to price it low and tell buyers to pay the fee. Seller can either be honest and pay the fee which they are required to, not the buyer....or include it in their total price. If buyer thinks it's too high they can walk away from it. But asking buyer to pay your own fee is a no no.
Here is an example of a good reason to use Paypal if you don't know or trust your seller completely. A few years ago I bought $3500 dollars worth of Lady Liberty Silver Dollars with buyit know, and paid through Paypal. The seller sent me the copy of a US Mail Shipping Label as proof that the package would go out the next day. I had originally asked the seller to go to the Post Office and ship certified and insured, as the package could be insured up to $50,000 of stated value, and custody transfers are recorded between postal employee's. ( By the way: A very well known watch company only ships watches via USPS, Certified Mail Signature Required. ) The Seller/shipper told me that he always shipped coins via Priority and that they were insured up to $5,0000 dollars.
Well the next day I checked the tracking number that he gave me, and no record. I checked it the next day, no record. I contacted the seller and asked him to provide me with a good tracking number. He put me off for the rest of that day. And I opened a dispute with PayPal. It took me 2 1/2 weeks to get the money credited back into my account, but Paypal did get it back for me.
As a side note I had a transaction go bad on a cell phone that I paid for with a credit card. The credit card company did reverse the charges and issued me a credit for the cell phone after about two weeks.
My next add may read “$103 or 100 F/F, your choice”
OK, sellers:Â please add the fee, give us no choice.
Now a lot of people will be happy.