I had an Impact 30 and it is louder than some lower powered guns for sure. That being said, I’m not fully sure you can get the quietness you hope to get.
I haven’t noticed much difference in sound from different moderators. I tried 4 or 5 different mods on my Impact 30, and finally just stayed with the factory baffles and saved money because none of the others made a big enough difference to justify the cost. That being said, I never tried the largest Donny mods either, Shogun and Ronin. There was a reason though, they are heavy!! On that Impact shroud, smaller ones already weigh the barrel down and influence the possibility of clipping.
I did try an older STO and it was significantly lighter and may have been the quietest by the smallest of margins. That being said, they appear to have improved things a lot since then, so they may be even better now. They won’t be as light as the old models, but I’m guessing they will hold up better too.
I know your situation calls for the quietest possible, but I would still temper expectations. And I would offer that, if the Sumo isn’t quiet enough, you are going to need to try something much larger. Of the ones that are the same size as the Sumo, I haven’t found one that blows it away in sound difference, even if some did slightly sound quieter.