What do you set the paralax on if you are using the elevaion turret stickers that I spent alot of time on? I am a newbie and I have not gotten this figured out at this time but I am in Love with it.
Your question is confusing. You set the parallax to the correct distance.
As suggested, you need to first get the diopter focus set correctly. To do that, point your scope at a light colored wall much too close to actually focus on and concentrate on the reticle. Wind the diopter ring in and out till the reticle is the sharpest. The best method is to twist in both directions till you just notice it getting worse and then set it right between those two points.
Once you have the reticle crisp and clean you need to sight at a target and do similar with the parallax. Check your parallax by bobbing your head around while holding the scope steady. If the cross hairs move on the target your parallax is wrong. Slowly turn it in or out till moving your eye back and forth leaves the reticle pointed at the exact same spot.
A sign you don't have the parallax set correctly is when your shot group is strung out in a slightly curved line at around a 45 degree angle. This will happen as your face moves in and out of the scope center in an arc.
You can mitigate parallax errors by having a consistent cheek weld such that when you pull the gun up your face finds the same spot every time and that spot is a clean scope picture. If you find yourself searching for the scope window you will have problems unless your parallax is perfect.