I get your frustration with slugs, I've had more than my share of frustration too. I've messed around with a bunch of NSA slugs as well as the FX Hybrids. My experience is that to get them to fly right, you need to go after them full on with your tune, and they like to go fast. I have a tune or two that I can bounce back and forth between the FX hybrids and pellets, but the hybrids aren't cheap, so I only use those for hunting. I shoot to hunt, primarily. Or, to practice for hunting: even if I am target shooting, it's with hunting in mind. For a lot of my hunting situations, I have about 125 yards, and beyond that backstop and neighboring properties are factors. A slug going 950+ fps still has a lot of energy at that range and might just blow through your quarry and beyond. I run .25 and up cals. I have a bulldog that I built out to shoot the NSA 142s and it does so with amazing accuracy. It was a lot of work tuning and modifying the gun, and that's it...that's what it shoots. In .25 cal compact and .30 cal compact, I haven't had much luck, even with the Superior Heavy liner. Those guns are used for 100 yards and less, and the Hades in those calibers is wicked. So, I have resigned myself to those pellets in those compact guns. I have a .25 cal Maverick sniper that shoots slugs well, but I only have one or two permissions where I can let a 33.5 grain or more slug rip at more than 125 yards, so I keep the gun set up to shoot 33.95's at 930 fps, hole in hole at moderate winds at 100 yards. Beyond that or in 10+ mph winds, you have to know your dope. I do, and it drops pigeons quite well.
I appreciate the science and ballistics behind slugs. I like to shoot long range, but don't get the opportunity very often with air guns. I can shoot out to 90 yards safely in my backyard. That satisfies a lot of my shooting itch, as I get swirling winds everyday, and shooting in mercurial winds is always a fun challenge. I reload and shoot powder burners too, and if I want to play long, that's how I do it. Inside of 125 yards, I try to use an air gun whenever legal and possible. I have spent a lot of money and time to on slugs to come to this conclusion. Slugs have their place, as do pellets. The key is to use whichever will work best in your situation. I wanted slugs to be the answer for everything, but it turns out pellets are the right choice for a lot of my hunting (and shooting) situations.