Good post man. You and I have discussed some of these same points on the side.
Eyes are different and what is important is different, as many have stated. What each of us likes is different.
Many people (including myself when I started) wanted others to tell them what to buy. I thought I would get that perfect scope on the first try. Now, I’ve owned many different ones, as I’ve learned what I like and dislike. People like to ask about the glass, but don’t know what they are asking. I don’t know if you like contrast or resolution. I think you have to try many to figure it out, and be willing to buy and sell several (used preferably to save money), so you can test out a bunch. And people really need to pay attention to reticles! So important!!
I have several favorites and it all comes down to what I have tried and tested. I have disliked great scopes that others liked. I have liked cheaper scopes over more expensive scopes. Quite a few scopes have not agreed with my eyes, and that is cool. I assume it is my eyes. I try to find a great balance of quality and price when I can, and it can be hard. And I almost always buy used, so I can afford to resell it if I don’t like it.