wrong size is wrong size... The ones you found will have a larger OD than what is spec'd, which will make it difficult to get in, and once in, the probe will want to push it out.
I have not tried replacing the O-ring on my Bobcat yet, but have installed MANY o-rings on my own builds, which are configured the same way as the FX. The first few times it may be easier to push a pellet into the bore to block it off, so the o-ring will have no where to go, other than the groove. If you pinch the o-ring side to side, they will generally take on a curl. I insert the curl into the groove as much as possible, and then use a small allen key(or pick) to work the rest of the o-ring into the bore, and groove. First few times is a PIA, but you will get the hang of it and it will become second nature...